Whether you’re looking to shake up your solo pleasure routine, reignite things in your relationship, or connect with sexy strangers in a playful new way, sex tech games are genuinely worth your attention. There’s a reason the kink community often refers to sex as ‘adult play’. Play is exactly what it is. Think about how you feel when you’re totally absorbed in a game. Focused, present, a little electric. Sex tech games bring that same energy into your pleasure life, combining interactive technology with intimacy to give you new ways to experience connection and orgasm.
Here are 13 of the best — and if any of these spark a deeper rabbit hole, we’ve linked out to our more detailed guides throughout so you can go as far as you want.
Name That Tune
Using sound responsive vibrators such as the OhMiBod ClubVibe (butt plug or clitoris version) or the Lovense Ferri, have a partner or friend sing, hum, or play a song through the mic while you wear the vibrator. We’ve covered sound-responsive vibrators in depth if you want to understand exactly how the technology works before you dive in, and our piece on how sex toy technology evolved gives useful background on the interactive and sound-reactive category more broadly.
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Online Orgy
If you’re missing the good old days of the sex dungeon, or you never got to try one out, Lovense lets you enjoy a multi-person experience from the comfort of your own home. Download the Lovense app to connect any Lovense toy with up to 100 people online, letting everyone share control in a virtual room of vibrating chaos.
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Domination Quiz
Blindfold and restrain your partner, then use a remote controlled vibrator or masturbation sleeve to reward or tease them through a quiz. Get a question right and they get stimulation. Get it wrong and you edge them. As with any power play, agree on a safeword and boundaries before you start — and read our guide to dominating your partner with sex tech, which covers safewords, aftercare, and choosing the right toys for power play. Our recent piece on why aftercare is the most important part of any BDSM scene is essential reading too, particularly if this is new territory for either of you.
Can You Keep a Straight Face?
Take your partner for a walk in the park or to your local high street with them wearing a discreet wearable vibrator. Make a rule such as any time you spot a red car, you get to turn on the vibrations. If they can’t keep a straight face, up the ante. Bear in mind that public play requires clear, enthusiastic consent from your partner and real awareness of your surroundings. Non-consenting bystanders cannot agree to being part of your scene, so the toy should never be visible and any reaction your partner has should be plausibly deniable. We covered the full consent and legal picture in our dedicated piece on public sex kink and wearable tech, and it’s essential reading before you head out. The legal position in the UK is that anything that could constitute a public indecency offence carries genuine consequences, so it’s worth reading up before you head out. We looked at this properly in our dedicated piece on public sex kink, which is worth a read alongside our guide to remote-controlled play.
Orgasm Race
This one is perfect for long-distance lovers who want to make a video chat session genuinely competitive. Both of you use toys and race to orgasm first, or if you’re into edging, the first to finish loses. For a fully connected experience, a dual teledildonics set such as the Kiiroo Interactive Couple Set means you both feel what the other is doing in real time. Our piece on dominating your partner with sex tech breaks down how teledildonics works across distance, which is useful context if this is new territory.
Couples’ Gaming Apps
Couples’ apps like Kindu or Desire offer kinky dares, roulette wheels for new sex positions, and structured prompts to get conversations started. They’re designed to reignite passion and intimacy for anyone struggling to find inspiration in their relationship, and honestly, most of us hit that wall at some point.
Wheel of Foreplay
Spin the Wheel of Foreplay. This collaboration between YouPorn and Future of Sex serves up a sexy suggestion on demand. There are five packs of cards to choose from — long distance dating, sensual, physical, mindful, and going solo — so you can pick based on your mood and who you’re with. The cards can range from “blindfold yourself for a sensual masturbation experience” to “make your own glory hole.”
Interactive Dildo Machine
Take the game Flappy Bird, combine it with a Motor Bunny ride-on dildo machine, and what do you get? FappyBunny, of course. It’s an app that works just like the well-known mobile game but with one key difference. The higher the bunny jumps, the higher the vibration.
Interactive Kegel Trainer
Not many people enjoy doing their pelvic floor exercises, but sex tech makes a genuine case for rethinking that entirely. Smart pelvic floor trainers like the Elvie Trainer, GVibe GBalls 2, the OhMiBod LoveLife Krush, and We-Vibe Bloom use interactive apps to track your progress, gamify the workout, and yes, vibrate you through it. Regular pelvic floor training improves sexual control, natural lubrication, and the strength of your orgasms, which is a pretty compelling argument for keeping up the habit. We’ve covered this in detail in our piece on 19 reasons why people use sex toys.
Hentai Website Gaming
Adult gaming platforms like Nutaku offer a wide range of hentai-themed sex games, including dedicated LGBTQ+ content, and you can filter by preference so you’re always finding something that actually appeals to you.
Porn App Games
Adult app stores like Aptoide, MiKandi, and Nutaku give you access to hundreds of adult games on mobile, making it easier than ever to find something genuinely engaging rather than just watching passively.
Adult VR Games
Taking gaming to another level with 3D immersion, VR porn games such as VRLove and Dezyred allow the user to choose their own fantasy, customise avatars and simulate sex. Some even connect to teledildonics for a more physically realistic experience. If you want to understand the tech behind that, our guide to using smart sex toys with your partner breaks it all down.
DIY Sex Tech Games
Want to get a bit more creative? You can build your own sex tech games entirely. Think BDSM predicament bondage setups with timed or sensor triggered toys, or community projects like Butt Plug.io’s take on Animal Crossing that hook real-world game events to physical sensations.
So there you have it — 13 sex tech games to shake up solo sessions, partnered play, and everything in between. Whether you pick one or work your way through all of them, the point is the same: pleasure is worth playing with.
