We all know sex toys can be great tools for enhancing our personal pleasure. But despite fears around them “replacing” our partners, they can actually be fantastic companions in partnered sex too. So, whether you’re a newbie to introducing sex toys into your relationship, or you are a well-versed couple keen to add even more titillation to your sex life, these 10 best sex toys for couples will hopefully do the trick.
Benefits of using sex toys as a couple
If you aren’t sure how to bring it up to a partner, here is a 12 Step Beginner’s Guide to Introducing Sex Toys into Your Relationship.
So, what sex toys are even out there for couples to use? Well, the great thing is – absolutely ANY toy can be used as a ‘couples toy’. Does it work on you? Great! Use it with a partner.
However, there are toys that are undeniably better-suited for partnered use. We always recommend you read the reviews, as there are a few things you might want to consider when choosing your couples’ sex toy:
Furthermore, there are many types of toys out there to choose between, so we’ve laid out five categories that are great for couples exploring the discovery of your preferences. And remember, each person in a relationship will have their own needs and desires, so it’s best to check-in before making that purchase.
10 Best Sex Toys for Couples
Wearable vibrators
Whether you’re in a long distance relationship, into more power play, or simply want to spice up your relationship, a remote control vibrator can be a great toy for a couple. These are often worn in the pants with a separate remote or via an app on your smart device.
Ohmibod Club Vibe Range
OhMiBod Club Vibe 3.OH
Satisfyer Little Secret Panty Vibrator
Couples Rings
Couples rings (also known as penis rings, pleasure rings, or cock rings) are to be worn over the penis (and sometimes balls) often to provide additional strength and sensation to the penis, and if the toy hosts a vibrating motor on the top this also to add clitoral stimulation. This can also be worn over strap-on dildos for the same effect.
Lelo Tor 2
Hot Octopuss Atom Plus
Couples Vibes
Couples vibes are typically designed for PIV (penis-in-vagina) sex, but who’s to say you can’t use these toys in other ways. For example DIV (dildo-in-vagina) sex. Ultimately, they are worn inside the vagina with an external part stimulating the clitoris. When using a strap-on dildo, simply slot the couples vibe in to add to the stimulation.
Satisfyer Partner Plus
Lelo Tiani
Strap-ons
Speaking of strap-ons. Strapping up can be a great alternative to penis in vagina penetration. Whether you’re using this for pegging, lesbian sex, or simply to shake things up, there are a variety of types of dildos you can use. Some offer vibration stimulation, some are double ended, others are hollow to provide a size change for adding more length or girth to a penis.
Remote Control Vibrating Strap-On
Vive Suki Strapless Strap-On
Kinky Toys
Toys don’t have to be specifically used for the genitals. Kinky sex toys are a great way to build arousal and anticipation with a partner. Such as blindfolds, rope ties, and other forms of restraint and sensory deprivation. Remember to do your research before diving into kinky play, as it’s important to be risk aware and engage in consensual practices.
Beginner’s Kink Set
Advanced Rope Kit
So there you have it, some of the best sex toys for couples’ sexy times. Whether you’re new to the sex toy game with a partner, or are well-versed looking for the next thing to gift your sexy-times, be sure to communicate what is is you want to experience, discuss each other’s boundaries, and check-in regularly.
